You can be in the kitchen doing the pots, you can be in the living room relaxing or even going to bed. When she appears she will laugh, then asks you "Will you play a game with me?". If your response is "No", she will rip out your eyes and take her leave. If your response is "Yes", she will say "Pick a game and I'll tell you the rule's".
Once you have picked one, then she tell you. "Now you have chosen a game, there is no going back. If you lose I get your soul, If you win you get to live. You have to play to live, if you try to brake the rules you will die".
She is also know as The Child Of Games, and The Soul Reaper in other cultures.